Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Shades of Gray

As our nation approaches a presidential election, our worship team considered a variety of topics we might explore for a September sermon series in '08.  
When I turn on the news in the evening, whether it is CNN or MSNBC or Fox, or another media outlet, almost always I find the discussion and opinions on "both" sides of the issues, be it immigration, health care, drilling for oil or almost any other controversial topic, unhelpful.  Almost all the "talking heads" providing their limited expertise make the issues seem one way or another, black or white.  In fact, in this election, the discussion is often literally about black and white, young or old, evangelical or atheist, citizen or immigrant.
That's why our worship team chose to build a series of sermons and worship experiences around "Seeing Gray in a World of Black and White: Thoughts on Religion, Morality and Politics" by Rev. Adam Hamilton, the pastor of Church of the Resurrection in Kansas.   
In the book, Hamilton suggests that the culture and political wars haven't yet found a middle way.  As the book jacket notes:  He believes that thinking persons of faith can model for the rest of the country a richer, more thoughtful conversation on the political, moral and religious issues that divide us.  Hamilton rejects the easy assumptions  and sloppy analysis of black and white thinking, seeking instead the truth that resides on all sides of the issues and offering a faithful and compassionate way forward.
A few weeks ago, a man who identified himself as conservative theologically and politically visited our church.  After the visit he contacted me to ask a few more questions about our church.  Even though he believed himself to be more conservative in his beliefs and style of worship than our congregation, he was very impressed with the warmth those around him expressed, the friendliness, and the obviously long list of outreach projects into the community. He told me he felt that people at QQUMC are passionate about reaching people who don't know Christ.  
As we talked I told him that I also believed members of our congregation try very hard not to divide people by labeling them according to what they believe.  There are people in our congregation who are left of me and to the right of me.  There is no way there cannot be theological diversity in a congregation where many of its members come from traditions that are not United Methodist.  Many of our new members in this growing congregation come from a wide variety of theological backgrounds (from Unitarian to Church of Christ), and I hope we help facilitate their journey of spiritual growth and maturity.
That spiritual growth and maturity, I'd like to think, is partly about learning to "see the gray" in the world.   When I was growing up, friends in more conservative church traditions would tell me to share with them what I believed in one or two sentences.   That was difficult.  The United Methodist Church has an entire book, "The Book of Resolutions" that is added to and changed every four years at our global General Conference.  These resolutions state what the church believes about issues and concerns taking place in the world.  They are especially important because they are based, best we can, on a biblical foundation, but they address contemporary issues the Bible does not always address.  Thus, for United Methodists, it is hard to say in a sentence or two what we believe.  We have lots of beliefs that are not easily categorized in a black and white world.
I hope you'll join us for all the Sundays in September (or virtually!) and bring a friend as we discuss what it really means to be liberal or conservative, what is spiritual maturity and the ability to see gray, how should one's faith come into play when approaching a presidential election, what is a worthy vision for America, and what is the radical center?
Most of you know, I'm pregnant with triplets.  So far, all is well.  Thank you for your prayers for our health.  Pray also that the world in which we live, so polarized by black and white opinion, become a place where Christians, especially progressive Christians and conservative Christians, can listen to one another, where progressive Americans and conservative Americans can hear the truth in what each is saying.  
And I hope my friend who identifies himself as conservative will always feel welcome in a church that is known for welcoming everyone, just as Jesus instructed us to do (Matthew 13:44-47).  God may do the sorting, but that is not our task as the church.  Our task is to open the door wide!  That's the kind of church and world I want for all my children and all God's children.
Peace,
Rev. Betsy


1 Comments:

At 10:10 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sometimes the world is black and white. Sometimes – not always and not even most of time. We’ve been taught to think in those terms – the dichotomy of the lives. Left-right, liberal-conservative, hot-cold, night-day, yes-no, right-wrong, legal-illegal, sinner-saint, yen-yang, my way or the highway, love me or leave me.

Is it some deep learned aspect of our existence, something so deeply planted it crosses the boundaries of cultures and religions? In Genesis G_d divides the world between day and night, light and dark. In eastern cultures, there is yen and yang, earth and sky. Native American cultures there is the earth mother (female) and grandfather – usually sky (male). No matter where we go, there is some aspect we think is easily split in two.

Yet I know I am not simply any of those things listed. In most aspects of my life I would be both – liberal AND conservative, sinner AND saint, right AND wrong, law abider AND law breaker, a person on a diet AND not on a diet, a committed lover AND a cheater (oh…how the flesh is weak.) That is what almost ALL of us are both.

But we fail to see that others are often both of something that is our minds are so opposite. Both a caring mother AND someone who can snap at their children after a day of pressure. Both loving father AND a person torn by his own demons he drinks and loses control. Both a good member of the church AND an anthrax killer. Both a public servant AND an opportunist (not Vic – but all those others). Both. People are both.

To accept the “both” to accept the “grey” we have to acknowledge that we don’t always know what is true or actual. We have to be willing to be wrong. People hate being wrong. So much that some would much rather die that admit a mistake. They create a whole WORLD to ignore the mistakes they made (see Bush, George W). Some people die without apologizing for the harm they have done in their lives. They shut out their family members, ex-spouses, or work associates. If they find someone didn’t conform to their image, didn’t completely act the part, they act hurt, criticize, get angry and shut them out, such as FORMER PRESIDENTIAL CANDIDATES or sports figures.

Living with the understanding that what I believe maybe wrong, what I think is always subject to change, is a difficult and hard life decision. One that requires you to always be confronting those aspects of your life that you thought you knew.

I guess that what is hard for me (an individual who considers himself a “non-Christian”) is you seem to be looking for common ground and exploring the areas where “Christians, especially progressive Christians and conservative Christians, can listen to one another, where progressive Americans and conservative Americans can hear the truth in what each is saying.”

I would contest that if you took the lessons of Christ, the identifier tags such as Christians and Americans, would be irrelevant. We would use the guidance of Christ to see in each other the manifestation of G-d, to treat each other with compassion, forgiveness, acceptance and love which Christ said we should all DO. The “tag” would not even be an issue – Christian, Jew, Buddhist, Black, White, Hispanic, French, German, Japanese, male, female, name something. If fact, it’s that TAG that gets in the way of doing that which you have been told to DO – LOVE without restrictions, FORGIVE without restrictions, ACCEPT others without boundaries, demonstrate COMPASSSION without strings and expectations.

Just do what you learned, everything will work out.

Namaste my friend in G-d

RJ

PS - Did you see the Parabola magazine edition on G_d? Wonderful reading... :-)

 

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